"I let love guide me to the partner that is perfect for me" ~ You, Me, Life, Dreams The Workbook ~
So many times we get wrapped up in trying to meet someone; and take all the "right" steps. We try to be so perfect in what we are doing. Yet, too often we are still trying to force a relationship or chase down a partner to be with us; even if that is not how we perceive it.
Too often, I see people that so eager and even desperate for a partner; they stop listening to their heart. When someone is perfect for you, there will be no need to force it. You will not have to choose between who you are and what you need to be to be with that person; they are one and the same.
However, when we are able to stop looking at the credentials of someone, or their physical characteristics; then we have the chance to really listen to what our heart is saying. When we are in the world with a loving heart; we will find the person that is right for us, and we won't have to have a magic formula to tell us that. All you will have to do, is to see what is happening within you.
Love does not steer us wrong; it is our distortions of love that mis-lead us. When someone is the perfect partner for you; you will not it without question.