"...tell them what you need..." ~ Activating Compassion ~
So many times I hear people fussing about what they are not getting and what is not working for them; and I ask a simple question. Have you asked for what you need and want? I often get that look like "no, I completely missed the obvious".
So many times our soul self has projected something out and yet, we haven't actually verbalized it to those that need to hear it. People cannot learn or know how to treat us unless we tell them. Too many times we feel that our friends, family, partners, bosses/co-workers, and others should know this. A sort of, if they know me they should know this; it is obvious that this is needed.
Well the obvious is often missed; and so even if you have told them before you may need to remind them. People rarely retain what they have heard once many years ago. Don't be afraid to continue to remind people if they are giving you something other than what you need. For most people, it will be a huge relief once they make the adjustment.
There is a peacefulness and ease that is created when we provide our guidelines. Of course some will not listen, and continue to do their own thing; and they will require patience and more reinforcement. The bottom line being is that unless you let others know that you need and want, unless you ask, you are unlikely to receive. Spirit to spirit we are attuned; but we are living in on Earth in a human existence and that requires additional communication.
With most people, you are going to find they are happy to oblige and provide what you need; but most really don't know until you speak up.