The story of my journey from complete nervous wreck to professional public speaker. In the book I share the thinking I learned on my spiritual journey through life, and offer ideas and inspiration to help you not only take control of your life, but become your authentic self. No one was born to be as unhappy as possible as often as possible. Everyone deserves the best possible life lived on their own terms, and to be fearlessly, proudly themselves. The spirituality I learned allowed me to stop trying to please others, stop being misdirected by the opinions of others, and stand firm in who I am and what I believe in. Most importantly, I became stronger, gentler and kinder at the same time as developing true self confidence. If you would like some ideas that you can work with to help you change your life, the book is there to help you.
Born in south London into an apparently normal family, Deb's life fell apart on the death of her grandfather when she was 6 years old, never to be repaired. Although she was never physically abused, Deb was subjected to a great deal of emotional abuse and criticism by those she should have been able to trust most in the world, and had no support to help her believe in herself. This resulted in her having no sense of self-worth or identity. She became 7 different people, just trying to please everyone around her in order to stave off more criticism, and none of those people liked each other. Fast forward 30 years and you will meet a quietly confident person, a respected spiritual teacher and inspirer, a born comedian, and fearless believer in world peace through kindness. Deb lives in the West Midlands with her husband and four cats. She has achieved two degrees and a black belt (retired), and numerous other qualifications to help her to help others. She is an Infinite Possibilities Trainer and Coach, having studied with Mike Dooley from "The Secret". A professional public speaker and member of Toastmasters International, she is a charismatic public speaker, with a passion for helping everyone to get the best out of their lives and questioning the thinking that makes people miserable. Deb didn't know she was a psychic medium until she was 36 years old, when the abilities switched on during a telephone call. She trained with one of the best mediums in the world today, and enjoys sharing her knowledge of both the work and personal spirituality with her students. As a coach or public speaker Deb will introduce you to a new way of thinking and living in this world that will change your life for the better.